My best friend and I could easily say hat a boy came between us. Been friends for 5 years.  But she also hurt and manipulated me too. Her bf was the typical player. He never had one female at a time. He slept with at least 2 girls at once and the messed up part about it was that… HE WAS MY MALE BEST FRIEND. I even helped him break up with some of his ex’s and we even hooked up in the past. No sex jus making out. He also dated half of our friends which really took the cake as to when she dated this guy.

He told me all the time how he was cheating on her and talked about her behind her back. He even broke up with her the 1st time through a text message. *sigh* sad face. And she freaked him. And regretted it. And she took him back months later after working her ass off to get him back only to disappoint me.
 
Summer 08
CUZ after they broke up me and her hooked up. I had a lot of feelings for her (im bi) and she claimed she felt the same bout me. But she switched up on me a lot. Like one week she would like me the next she would say she was jus playing or she didn’t know wat she wanted.

Fast forward to November 08
They break up after finally her hearing from someone else he cheating. Even though I told her that he was cuz he told me. Now this guy has been telling her not to be friends with me anymore and that im not a real friend and that im trying to mess up a good thing. Aside from the fact that I liked her knowing how he was I didn’t want my friend to get hurt by him again. I wanted to keep him from embarrassing her again.

On thanksgiving she stays over my house. She starts telling me that she wants me and wants to be with me. I nicely tell her that she shouldn’t go there cuz she is lonely  and is fresh from a break up. Then she is like she wants a relationship but doesn’t want me to be the rebound. I am getting aggravated because every time she does this and I fall for it she counters by saying “I didn’t mean it.. I jus wanted to see how far it would go this time.”

I didn’t I just told her don’t worry bout it in due time she will get over him. Ima be her best friend no matter what. Then the very next day she goes over his place and sleeps with him. Dumb female. im infuriated cuz he told me after they broke up he was still screwing the other chick.

We get in this huge argument bout how im sick of her playing with my feelings for her and if she was never interested she should have just said so. And how trifling she is for going 2 far with my ex ( almost dating the guy)and jus dat we not friends no more. The funny thing is it was a hour long text message fight. None of our arguments have been verbal. Probably cuz we would start laughing in the middle.

We don’t talk for a day. Then we talk again through text about school. She still doesn’t know that I asked my college professor to give her the C  in psych to help her GPA. It didn’t cuz she failed two other classes but even when we weren’t talking I was still her friend.

Now every thing is weird and she tells me yesterday that  she purposely picked fights with me bcuz her bf didn’t want her friends with me. She listened to him and tried to get me to stop talkin to her. But that she regretted doing it cuz she didn’t wanna lose me as a friend.

How do u react to this? Is she a real friend? Or do I let this person go? Or try to fix our friendship?